The course
The same programme, without having to talk to anybody.
Six modules, a workbook you actually write in, five short guides and the practice recordings. It is what I do in the room, structured so you can do it at home, at your own pace, telling nobody.
- The course
- [COURSE PRICE]
- Six modules
- 15–30 min each
- Access
- Yours permanently
What is in it
Six modules, in the order they need to happen.
- Why this happens
The mind–body mechanism, the medical boundary, and the case that your body is protecting you rather than failing you. Ends with mapping your own pattern.
- The ED anxiety cycle
Trigger, prediction, body alarm, self-monitoring, pressure behaviour, reduced arousal, shame. You map yours, and find the three points where you can interrupt it.
- The Pressure Reset Method
Five steps for when pressure arrives, practised where the stakes are low. “Just relax” is not a method; this is the route.
- From checking to sensing
The most important module in the programme. How to notice self-monitoring and come back — not perfect focus, just return.
- Rebuilding without testing
The pressure audit and your own confidence ladder, where success is defined by what you practised rather than by what your erection did.
- Communication, recovery and moving forward
Talking to a partner without shame, recovering from a difficult night, separating the event from your identity, and a 28-day plan.
And with it
- The workbook — the exercises every module refers to
- Five short guides, including the Pressure Reset and the Bad Night Recovery Plan
- The hypnosis and relaxation practice recordings
- The 28-day practice plan and a maintenance plan for afterwards
Do I need this if I have the book?
Not necessarily. The book is complete on its own and plenty of men need nothing else. The course is for people who would rather be walked through it — who will do an exercise if someone sets it, and skim a chapter if nobody does.
Is it just videos of a man talking?
Largely, yes, and I would rather say so than pretend otherwise. The videos explain; the workbook is where the actual work happens. If you watch all six and write nothing down, you will have had an interesting afternoon and changed very little.
Is the hypnosis part strange?
No. It is guided relaxation with some specific suggestion in it, you stay entirely aware throughout, and nothing happens that you have not agreed to. Its purpose is unglamorous: to give a nervous system that has been braced for months some repeated practice at not being.
What if it isn’t for me?
[REFUND POLICY]. And watch module one first — it is free, it is the longest single piece of explanation in the programme, and it will tell you within fifteen minutes whether the voice and the approach suit you.
The course
All six modules, the workbook, the five guides and the recordings. Yours permanently, watched whenever and wherever you like.
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